Are you from Jersey?

Are you from Jersey?

Avoid saying “you guys”, “youse guys (Jersey version – I’m from NJ) or “y’all. There is no one in the room by any of those names! Each person of your audience is an individual, and while speaking to them collectively makes...
This speaker mistake is costing you

This speaker mistake is costing you

This mistake has a huge cost for you as a speaker (and what to do about it). I have observed over 500 speakers in my tenure of speaking. Over the years, I have noticed behaviors in speakers that made me feel separate from them and turned me off from doing business...
Talk louder than you want to

Talk louder than you want to

Talk Louder. Talk louder than you think you need to or are comfortable doing. If you are not comfortable speaking louder, then you almost certainly need to! Our voices are so much louder in our heads than out in the room in other’s ears. Always use a microphone...
Be the Cat

Be the Cat

Be the Cat. What do cats have to do with public speaking? First, I am a big cat fan. I’m sure I’ll be a crazy old cat lady someday. Of course, I have a cat. A big, black, long-tailed one. That’s him above. His name is Seth. That’s a whole story of...
The Importance of Sharing your Story

The Importance of Sharing your Story

Signature talk.  I like to start out a signature talk with a story designed to connect with my audience and illustrate that I was just like are and have dealt with what they deal with. Here is a story I often start my talks with. At 27 years old I am a haircutting...