Are you from Jersey?

Are you from Jersey?

Avoid saying “you guys”, “youse guys (Jersey version – I’m from NJ) or “y’all. There is no one in the room by any of those names! Each person of your audience is an individual, and while speaking to them collectively makes...
This speaker mistake is costing you

This speaker mistake is costing you

This mistake has a huge cost for you as a speaker (and what to do about it). I have observed over 500 speakers in my tenure of speaking. Over the years, I have noticed behaviors in speakers that made me feel separate from them and turned me off from doing business...
Talk louder than you want to

Talk louder than you want to

Talk Louder. Talk louder than you think you need to or are comfortable doing. If you are not comfortable speaking louder, then you almost certainly need to! Our voices are so much louder in our heads than out in the room in other’s ears. Always use a microphone...
Be the Cat

Be the Cat

Be the Cat. What do cats have to do with public speaking? First, I am a big cat fan. I’m sure I’ll be a crazy old cat lady someday. Of course, I have a cat. A big, black, long-tailed one. That’s him above. His name is Seth. That’s a whole story of...
The Importance of Sharing your Story

The Importance of Sharing your Story

Signature talk.  I like to start out a signature talk with a story designed to connect with my audience and illustrate that I was just like are and have dealt with what they deal with. Here is a story I often start my talks with. At 27 years old I am a haircutting...
Manage Your Mind for Speaking

Manage Your Mind for Speaking

Unconventional public speaking preparation. A lot of people have public speaking nerves. Just one of the sources of this is they don’t realize they are telling themselves the audience is judging and/or comparing them. You actually have complete control over what...
Self-Image in Front of your Audience

Self-Image in Front of your Audience

Public Speaking starts inside of you. Have you ever considered who you are for yourself matters, and has everything to do with how you show up for your audience? I am talking about your beliefs about yourself and your self-image. It starts before you ever get in front...
Worst Speaking Advice

Worst Speaking Advice

7 of the worst pieces of public speaking advice.   Apologize for anything – last-minute speaker and not quite prepared, late. This takes away from your credibility and puts the attention on something that is other than what you want to talk about. Plus,...
Steps to Deal Powerfully with Fear

Steps to Deal Powerfully with Fear

7 Steps to Overcome Public Speaking Fear Public speaking can be one of the most stressful things you’ll ever have to do in your life, but it doesn’t have to be. With proper preparation and the right mindset, you can easily master the art of public speaking, conquer...